STANDART NYC MISTRESS Mistress Ramona Ryder 1
STANDART NYC MISTRESS Mistress Ramona Ryder 2
STANDART NYC MISTRESS Mistress Ramona Ryder 3
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Like A Bad Girl Should

About Me

Once a Ramona Man, Always a Ramona Man

I look forward to leaving you breathless with my innate ability to satisfy your hidden indulgences while bringing out your most primal self. I’m a multi-faceted experience and a highly trained kink expert. I’m your perfect guide if you want to explore new or established interests. But look no further if you crave a slow and meaningful touch- I’m definitely a Mistress who can do it all. I am very open-minded; do not be afraid to share your deepest secrets with me as I’m down for anything from mild to wild.

xx Ramona Ryder

Based in New York City Gramercy Park near Union Square

Frequently in San Francisco, Chicago, Los Angeles, Asheville, Washington, D.C., and Boston.


I suggest reading the blog on my website if you’re interested in getting to know me better. But in general, I’m into museums, history, meditation, reading books about rock & roll and punk history, vintage Japanese motorcycles (70s Hondas are my heart), farmers markets, cooking farm-to-table style, collecting first pressing vinyl records with the inserts, and eating wagyu steak.

I am never a boring conversation having a BA in philosophy and a voracious appetite for learning. I am always up to date on current events due to listening to NPR on my retro kitchen radio and reading the New York Times daily. I secretly like to read the New York Post when I’m feeling plebeian.

I was born and raised in Manhattan and have traveled the world many times over from Reykjavik to Tenerife. As a lover of travel, I am always passport ready and available for fly me to you (fmty) or fly me with you adventures. I am especially available if you need a guide to Japan. I look forward to exploring together!


The best way to make initial contact is to complete the contact form on my website. I suggest that you review my FAQ to learn about my protocol, especially if you have no references or are new to kink or this underground facet of satisfaction.

I provide dinner dates, extended dates, outcalls, overnights, fly me to you (fmty), and fly me with you adventures. You can typically find me at least once yearly in Portland, Seattle, Las Vegas, Pittsburgh, Philadelphia, and Tokyo.

Sign up for my mailing list on my site (scroll to the bottom) to stay up to date on my new photos and blogs and be sure to include your primary city/cities when you sign up as to receive city-specific announcements. You can enter your city as your last name.

My Details
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5 ft 9 in
Available To:
couples, women, trans, men
Incall / Outcall